im drained. as much as i hate to admit, im sooo drained. what would you guys do, if almost everyday, its always a problem with your partner. i dont mean like fighting everyday. almost everyday they share their negative thoughts and constantly needs assurance. dont get me wrong, i do feel bad. but its almost everyday. and with all advice, every comfort i give, i just dont see any improvements. i even told them to go to therapy but i havent seen them actually going to one. i understand its not that easy to go to therapy, but if everyday all i face is their negative thoughts, what do i even do at that point? im just at my limit. i get that they have their issues and pain. but i also have my own wounds. im too focused on theirs that at some point i forgot to heal my own,
So like give Debbie Downer an ultimatum- get therapy, work it out, new lifestyle or you are OUTTA THERE!
Start to get out and meet people more. Invite your spouse (or however you term them) along. Aim for something you both would be interested in, if possible. Always invite them. If they don't take you up on your invitation, suggest things for them to do. Either they improve their situation and mood or they do not; you always aim to improve your situation. I wish you both the very best life can be, whatever happens.